Minimalist Living with Children
- The Mindful Declutterer
- Mar 24
- 3 min read
Updated: Apr 10

If you've ever stepped on a rogue Lego piece in the middle of the night, you know how challenging it can be to maintain a clutter-free home with children. While minimalism with kids may seem impossible, it’s not about having an empty house; rather, it’s about creating a space that promotes peace, joy, and intentional living. Here are some practical tips to help you embrace a minimalist lifestyle while raising your little ones.
1. Start with Your Own Stuff
Kids learn by example. If you want them to value simplicity, begin by decluttering your belongings. Let them see you thoughtfully choosing what stays and what goes. They'll be more open to doing the same when they witness your excitement over a clutter-free space.
2. Declutter Together (Make It Fun!)
Instead of turning decluttering into a dreaded chore, make it a game! Try:
The 10-Minute Tidy: Set a timer and see how many toys, books, or clothes you can sort in ten minutes.
The "Favorite Five" Challenge: Ask kids to pick their five favourite stuffed animals or action figures and donate the rest.
Reverse Birthday Box: Every time they receive a new toy, they pick an old one to give away.
3. Emphasize Experiences Over Stuff
Kids don't need mountains of toys to be happy. Instead of buying more things, invest in experiences: zoo trips, nature hikes, museum visits, or family game nights. Memories last much longer than plastic trinkets.
4. Rotate Toys Instead of Owning Too Many
Too many toys can overwhelm kids, making it harder for them to focus. Try the toy rotation system:
Keep out only a few toys at a time.
Store the rest in a box.
Every few weeks, swap them out for a "new" batch.
This system can make playtime exciting and prevent mess overload.
5. Limit Clothes to What They Actually Wear
Kids grow out of their clothes quickly, filling their closets quickly and becoming cluttered. Consider keeping just a few mix-and-match tops and bottoms, a couple of special occasion outfits, and just enough seasonal wear (e.g., jackets, swimsuits, etc.). This will help cut down on laundry time and decision fatigue.
6. Create Kid-Friendly Decluttering Rules
Make it easy for kids to participate by using simple guidelines like:
"If I haven't played with it in a month, I can share it with someone else."
"If it's broken and can't be fixed, it goes."
"If I don't love it, I don't keep it."
7. Teach Gratitude and Generosity
Minimalism isn't just about having less—it's about appreciating what you have. Encourage your kids to give their unused items to children in need. When they see their old toys making another child happy, they'll understand the joy of generosity.
8. Create Simple, Clutter-Free Spaces
One Shelf Rule: Keep only what fits on a single shelf in their bedroom.
Easy Storage Bins: Use labelled baskets for books, art supplies, and toys.
Open Spaces for Play: Leave room for creativity instead of filling every corner with furniture or toys.
Minimalist living with kids isn't about deprivation—it's about giving them the freedom to enjoy what's most meaningful. A clutter-free home reduces stress, fosters creativity, and creates more time for family moments. Start small, involve your children, and watch as simplicity transforms your home into a place of peace and joy.
What's one small step you can take today toward minimalist living with your kids? Let me know in the comments!
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